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I Am Getting Into Wicca And Have Read A Lot On It But I Have A Real Question I Would Like Answered.?
Posted by admin on November 12th, 2009 at 8:40 pm
I have been to a few rituals and read up on Wicca as well as candle magic…but I am wondering if there is a ritual or spell to help a person fall in love with someone. I am trying to separate the movie stereotype from reality but I am in love and want them to be as well….what can I do?
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The problem here is one of ethics.
What many have said here is that “Love Spells” is unethical because it takes away another’s Free Will. The best are spells to attract love not to attract a specific person.
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Wicca is about your relationship with the gods, your connections to nature and the natural cycles of the year, and living an *ethical* life.
Trying to force someone to fall in love with you goes completely against Wiccan ethics. The only person you are meant to have control over is yourself.
Using magic to try to get a particular person to love you wouldn’t get you *real* love, perhaps only an illusion of it, and the “target” usually gets crazy by basically being turned into a slave with magic and not knowing or understanding what has happened to him – I’ve seen such situations turn violent and the woman who cast the spell get seriously physically hurt by the guy.
There is a reason experienced witches always warn “be careful what you wish for.”
Just the other day on here there was one who said they cast a love spell on a guy, and now she’s found she’s not happy with him, mostly because she can’t tell if he really likes her, or if he’s only with her because of the spell, and she can’t “undo” the spell. Well yeah, once you’ve taken an action, it’s rather difficult to undo it.
When using magic, you must consider all consequences, and be prepared to accept them.
If you are really interested in Wicca, then study it in depth, build a relationship with the gods, transform yourself into a better person, learn to love yourself more. Until you truly love yourself for who you are, nobody else can truly love you, and nobody else can make you happy. That which you cannot find within, you will never find without.http://wicca.timerift.net/
Here’s something to consider. What if they are not supposed to be in love with you right now, and by trying to force it you cause a chain of events that not only hurts you, but hurts them and those that they were supposed to be a part of? “Love spells” or rituals to try and influence people or push them towards love when YOU want it are, to me, a perfect example of doing harm when you don’t mean to.
So is there? Some say yes, some say no. I am not a wiccan, but I do think that you need to think long and hard about how you would be pushing for something that YOU think should happen, and not accepting what should happen for their best interests. If they are supposed to fall in love with you, then they will. If they aren’t, then they won’t. And it’d be better to go up to them and ask them on a date and pursue a relationship than behind the curtain things designed to try and influence them.
Prariecrow is right, it’s like slipping them a drug and is about as real. Don’t do it.
The real problem with ‘love’ spells is that they are oxymoronic. Love is about giving, not being given to. It’s about caring about someone else’s happiness and well-being more than your own. Casting a spell to make them fall in love with you is taking, not giving; it’s about your happiness, not theirs. Therefore the very concept is tainted at the outset.
What I have learned in my study of paganism is that the surest way to get what you want in life is to arrange the circumstances, the flow of life, so that things fall in place naturally without having to be forced or fought for. This is the way to do it so that it’s right and real.
We shape clay into a pot,
but it is the emptiness inside
that holds whatever we want.
–Tao Te Ching
It is the shaping that is the most effective way. It is figuring out how to shape things that insight, meditation, and clarity can help you with.
Well you can invite love into your life but according to the wiccan reed you cant do anything to hurt others or control others so sorry you cant make them fall in love
‘Spell to Invite love into your life
Materials required
Two red Roses/Dried jasmine flowers and Rose petals/One Red candle/One foot of red ribbon.
Find yourself a convenient place to work your spell.
Use a table for your altar.
On the left side of the table place one of the roses which represents you.
On the right side of the table place the other rose which represents the invitation of Love.
In the centre stand your red candle.
Make a heart shape of jasmine and Rose petals around your candle.
Hold the candle and clearly visualise pure love coming into your life.
Be accurate in your visions,make sure that you are inviting love into your life and not a particular person.
Focus your mind on the kind of qualities such a person will have to share with you
To be Honest, kind, caring, understanding and loving are some that spring to my mind.
When you have completed your visualisation, light the candle and repeat the following chant.
Within my mind I can see,
Thou art my love in front of me.
Inside thy soul a flame burns bright,
Encompassed with thy love of light.
Entice me with your heart so bold,
The secret of this love untold.
Thy fated future Entwined to be,
A love secure for you and me.
Using the ribbon, tie the two rose buds together and place in a vase.
Allow the candle to burn down and the rose buds to open.
As this takes place a new love will come into your life.
Epona’ Spell of the day from http://www.witchcraft.org/cgibin/dailysp…
Don’t do it. Trust me on this one. I did it and it backfired very badly…I’d rather not go into details. I know now that forcing someone to fall in love with you is against Wiccan beliefs. Do a spell to ‘Bring love into your life’ or something similar, and let the Goddess decide you lover.
My Dear friend. WICCA is a religion, A religion to do good for yourself and others. Trying to ward away bad spells are fine, but trying to create one for ones own selfish needs does not sound good.
Where as for love, Look into the heart, and not the face, Beauty in a person lays in the heart of a person not the Face, remember as time passes by, The heart stays the same or gets even better, while the face looses all its pretty charm.
Good Luck.
Love & Light.
Yes, there are plenty of spells to force someone to love you if that’s what you really want.
They’re also a really good way to learn just how powerful magick can be and how it can seriously screw things up.
Google love spells and you will find plenty. Just know that any experienced witch wouldn’t do one and for good reason. But there’s nothing wrong with wanting to experience why firsthand.
What you are talking about is mind control, “black” magic as it were. I try to avoid that at all costs.
Just do a spell to “bring love into your life.” Let the universe handle who that ends up being; I bet the universe knows better than you.
If you have to make a spell to make someone fall in love then they aren’t worth your time. Fall in love with someone who can fall in love with you without witch craft. And as for the people that say she doesn’t have a God, yes she does, she has plenty! lol
No responsible and ethical Wiccan would do such a thing.
Would you slip a date rape drug into their drink? No? Then why on earth would you want to do the magical equivalent?
Stay out of WICCA if you are only using it for selfish reasons, You will only be giving the WICCANS a bad rap. Spells are not to be played with and are not part of being a WICCAN. I am sure love will find a way for you.
answer: if you can’t win love the old fashioned way, move on. “Love” spells backfire and are the magical equivalent of spiritual date rape. Twisting someone else’s will to yours is selfish and unethical.
Spells and Rituals to bring love into your life are fine, Forcing it is a question of morals, I find it wrong, and completely against the idea of not messing with free will.
No the point of the “love” spells is for the man to recognize you not fall in love with you. You should talk to the person yourself.
Wow. I can’t say it better than Crystal and ‘Crow. What amazing responses.
If you want to avoid the stereotype: Don’t be one.
I don’t know much about Wicca, but I do know you can’t force someone to fall in love with you. It’s immoral no matter how you look at it.
you seem a bit controlling, perhaps therapy?
Be very nice and sweet to the person…
You can’t make someone fall in love.
why would you want to force love on someone to love you?
you commit sin
the relationship will not last
you will both part ways … eventually
he will end up hating you for good
is this the way you deal with relationships with
people around you.
you use spells to force your will on others …
ungodly ways of the heathen …
and the world blames God for all the misery in it …
What can you do? Try reading the Bible and get some reality into your pathetic misguided life.
Get real. Get God.
There are no such things as spells or magic.
No, it can not be done.
Wicca is bull, my friend.
This is a bad thing to be into. Better to trust in God and then when you pray, He will answer you. Wicca is witchcraft and those who get involved will go to eternal damnation unless they repent and trust in Jesus. Read this:
As it is written, there is none righteous, not even one…. Romans 3:10
For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord. Romans 6:23
For God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten son that whosoever believes in him will not perish but have eternal life. John 3:16.
Behold, I stand at the door and knock, if any one hear my voice and open the door, I will come in to him and sup with him and he with me. Revelation 3:20
As many as received him, to them he gave the power to become children of God, even to them that believe on his name. John 1:12
Repent therefore, and be converted that your sins may be blotted out and that times of refreshing may come from the presence of the Lord. Acts 3:19
…that if you confess with your mouth Jesus as Lord, and believe in your heart that
God raised him from the dead, you shall be saved. Rom. 10:9
If any man be in Christ, he is a new creature. Old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new. II Corinthians 5:17
If they need more information, they can check out John 3 (all), Romans 5:8, Ephesians 2:8-10, II Corinthians 7:10, Acts 3:19, I John 1:9, Isaiah 1:18; 55:6-9.