ya kno in the film Practical Magic, young Sandra Bullock summons her perfect guy (cant remember his name but he had one blue eye one brown) ......well how can i summon mine? :P without the use of candles or any magic. cant it be like the 'law of attraction' cosmic ordering? your not affecting anyones free will, your simply bring the guy whos perfect for you in to your life.... any suggestions? :P...